Building Competent Communicationmen who remember Allah often and the women who do so - for them...

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ن الحمد لل غفره و ستعينه و نست نحمده و ن ...

من شرور أنفس نا و من سيئات نعوذ بالل

فال م . أعمالنا ل و من يضل , ضل له من يهده للا

ال وحده , اله إال للا و أشهد أن ال إ . فال هادي له

.دا عبده و رسوله و أشهد أن محم . شريك له

لي أمري واحلل رب اشرح لي صدري ويسر

ليعقدة من لساني يفقهوا قو

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Strengthening Self-Identity for Leadership

& Civic Engagementby Building Communication Confidence through Islamic

Education

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Spiritual Leadership & Understanding the “I” in Identity

O Seek Knowledge: 96:1 {Al-’Alaq}

O Iqra/ bi-ismi rabbika allathee khalaq

O Seek Spiritual Connection: 73:1-2 {Al-Muzzamil}

O O you who wraps himself [in clothing],

O Arise [to pray] the night, except for a little

O Actively Give Dawah: 74:1-2 {Al-Muddathir}

O O you who covers himself {with a garment],

O Arise and warn

Avoiding narcissism, ego, arrogance & the nafs

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Communication: Common Strategy or Common Sense?

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Communication is Complicated

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The Curse of OtheringNacirema

https://msu.edu/~jdowell/miner.html

Ethnocentrism

Wodobe Tribe

Brown Eyed/Blue Eyed Experiment

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Speaking the Same Tongue

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Surat Ar-Rum

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Changing Our World View

O And of His signs is that He created for you

from yourselves mates that you may find

tranquility in them; and He placed between

you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are

signs for a people who give thought.

O And of His signs is the creation of the

heavens and the earth and the diversity of

your tongues and your colors. Indeed in that

are signs for those of knowledge. (30:21-22)

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PerceptionVerbal and Nonverbal Messages

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Vocal Variety

O Tone

O Pitch

O Volume

O Rate

O Inflection

O Enunciation

O Articulation

O Pronunciation

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Body Language & Movement

O Proxemics

O Power distance

O Kinesics

O Walk the Walk

O Haptics

O Power of Touch

O Posture

O Wishbone or Backbone

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Facial Expressions

O Eye Contact

O Muscle Movement

O Paralanguage

O Cognitive Restructuring

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Credibility

O Initial

O Derived

O Terminal

O Avoiding Logical Fallacies

O Red Herring

O Slippery Slope

O Bandwagon

O Either/Or

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Unrealistic Expectations of Roles

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Respecting the Gender Divide

O Modesty in Action and Activism

O Empathic versus Action-Oriented

O Emotion versus Analysis

O Finding the Balance

O Personality Differences

O Issues of Sexual Identity

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Surat Al-Ahzab [33:35]

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O “Indeed, the Muslim men and Muslim women, the believing men and believing women, the obedient men and obedient women, the truthful men and truthful women, the patient men and patient women, the humble men and humble women, the charitable men and charitable women, the fasting men and fasting women, the men who guard their chastity and the women who do so, and the men who remember Allah often and the women who do so - for them Allah has prepared forgiveness and a great reward.” [33:35]

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Surat An-Nur [24:30-31]

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Commandments of ModestyO Tell the believing men to reduce [some] of their vision and

guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what they do. [24:30]

O And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers, their brothers' sons, their sisters' sons, their women, that which their right hands possess, or those male attendants having no physical desire, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women. And let them not stamp their feet to make known what they conceal of their adornment. And turn to Allah in repentance, all of you, O believers, that you might succeed. [24:31]

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Internal or External Definition

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DEFINE YOURSELFIf we stoop to the level of accepting the definitions that are handed to us or any other negative definitions that we have internalized, then like an unmoored ship, we

are bound to float aimlessly without anchoring our actions to a greater ideal. Whether it is the

expectations of society, family, or self, we all have a lot on our plates. But this is where we need to revive our

sense of ummah. And we can start here and now, within the very ranks of our own broken brotherhood &

sisterhood.

If You Don’t Define Yourself, Others Will Do It for You!!!!

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Personality TestsO Know yourself before trying to know anyone else

O Meyer’s Briggs & Carl Jung-

www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp

Extraverted

Introverted

Sensing

Thinking

Judging

Feeling

Intuitive

Perceiving

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Which One Are You?

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How Can Our Youth Find Time for Civic Engagement?

O The Prophet Ibrahim prayed “O my Lord,

make this city one of peace and security and

preserve me and my children from idol

worship.” (14:35)

O We need to eliminate “idle” worship.

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The Big Time Wasters

O Procrastination

O Social Media/Technology

O Excessive Talk

O Life Clutter

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Choosing Friends WiselyThe Prophet (SAW) said "Man is influenced by

the faith of his friends. Therefore, be careful of

whom you associate with.”

Once the Prophet Mohammad (pbuh) was

asked, "What person can be the best friend?"

"He who helps you remember Allah (SWT), and

reminds you when you forget Him.“

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Three Jars and a Cylinder

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Surat Al-Baqarah - سورة البقرة

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Balancing Identity, Leadership, Life, & Learning

“On no soul doth Allah place a burden greater

than it can bear. It gets every good that it

earns, and it suffers every ill that it earns.

(Pray “Our Lord! Condemn us not if we forget

or fall into error; our Lord! Lay not on us a

burden like that which Thou didst lay on those

before us; Our Lord! Lay not on us a burden

greater than we have strength to bear….”

(2:286)

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Additional Sources

O http://almadinainstitute.org/blog/a-different-kind-of-fear-growing-up-muslim-in-the-age-of-trump/

O http://messageinternational.org/protecting-our-muslim-youth-in-a-gender-fluid-and-hyper-sexual-society/

O Articles & Slides by Suzy Ismail

O www.suzyismail.webs.com

O www.cornercounseling.com

O [email protected]

http://almadinainstitute.org/blog/a-different-kind-of-fear-growing-up-muslim-in-the-age-of-trump/
http://messageinternational.org/protecting-our-muslim-youth-in-a-gender-fluid-and-hyper-sexual-society/
http://www.suzyismail.webs.com/
http://www.cornercounseling.com/
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