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Reviving Plain Old Therapy:Promoting Mentalizing in Relationships
Exploring Parallels in Psychotherapy and Parenting
Reviving Plain Old Therapy:Promoting Mentalizing in Relationships
Exploring Parallels in Psychotherapy and Parenting
Jon G. Allen, Ph.D.
Senior Staff Psychologist, The Menninger ClinicProfessor of Psychiatry, Baylor College of Medicine
Jon G. Allen, Ph.D.
Senior Staff Psychologist, The Menninger ClinicProfessor of Psychiatry, Baylor College of Medicine
Goals
I: Describe commonalities among different therapies
II: Draw parallels between therapy and parenting;each informs the other
III: Explain how “mentalizing” and “attachment” inform therapy and parenting
IV: Support common sense with science
Goals
I: Describe commonalities among different therapies
II: Draw parallels between therapy and parenting;each informs the other
III: Explain how “mentalizing” and “attachment” inform therapy and parenting
IV: Support common sense with science
The commonsensical essence of psychotherapy—and other healing relationships
John Bowlby: the role of the psychotherapist is “to provide the patient with a secure base from which he can explore the various unhappy and painful aspects of his life, past and present, many of which he finds it difficult or perhaps impossible to think about and reconsider without a trusted companion to provide support, encouragement, sympathy, and, on occasion, guidance.” [A Secure Base]
Jon Allen: “The mind can be a scary place.”Patient: “Yes, and you wouldn’t want to go in there alone!”
Outline
I: Therapy brands versus common factors
II: Mentalizing in relationships
III: Attachment in relationships
Outline
I: Therapy brands versus common factors
II: Mentalizing in relationships
III: Attachment in relationships
Part I:
Therapy brands versus common factors
Part I:
Therapy brands versus common factors
Psychotherapy Brands
CPPADEP
TPP
TFPMBT
DBT
CBT
IPT
CFPDIT
SIT
EMDR
MBCBT
EFT
ERP RLX
PE
PCT
My non-brand of psychotherapy
CPPADEP
TPP
TFPMBT
DBT
CBT
IPT
CFPDIT
SIT
EMDR
MBCBT
EFT
ERP RLX
PE
PCT
POT
Much, if not all, of the effectiveness of different forms of psychotherapy may be due to those features that all have in common rather than those that distinguish them from each other.
—Jerome Frank (1961): Persuasion and healing
There are about 150 evidence-based therapies, with treatment manuals for each; no therapist could possibly learn all of them, or even many of them
Evidence-based therapies are designed for specific disorders, and most psychotherapists are generalists (like general practitioners in medicine)
Most patients have more than one disorder so, in principle, would need many different evidence-based therapies
In practice, generalist psychotherapists combine elements of different approaches, and flexibility is essential
Despite their seeming differences, evicence-based therapies are generally equivalent in their effectiveness
Why we need plain old therapy
Determinants of Psychotherapy Outcome*
Patient characteristics (e.g., severity and duration of illness, social support, capacity for trust)
Patient-therapist relationship (e.g., empathy and therapeutic alliance)Therapist characteristics (e.g., experience, expertise, gender)Treatment method (e.g., CBT, DBT, psychodynamic)
*Discussion: parallels to “outcomes” of parenting?child characteristics, parent-child relationship, parent characteristics, parenting method/style
Therapist’s contribution to the relationship (Carl Rogers)
Empathytherapist’s sensitive ability and willingness to understand the client’s thoughts, feelings, and struggles from the client’s point of view; requires empathic resonance (gut feelings), ability to communicate empathy, and receipt of empathy by the client
Positive Regardacceptance, respect, prizing of the client, non-possessive warmth, caring for the client as a separate person
Congruence (authenticity, genuineness)being open and honest, transparent, being oneself; requires mindful self-awareness and self-acceptance on the part of the therapist
These three facets are highly interrelated
Discussion: Parallels to parents’ contribution to the relationship?
Therapeutic Alliance
Extensive research shows that a positive therapeutic alliance is associated with a better therapy outcome, regardless of the type of treatment (brand name)
Two major components:• a trusting relationship• active collaborationRepair of ruptures in the alliance (e.g., disagreements about the
work, empathy failures, misunderstandings) relates to a positive outcome. Fluctuations in the alliance as well as ruptures are very common in therapy.
Empathy is highly related to the therapeutic alliance.
Discussion: Parallels to parent-child alliance?
Part II:
Mentalizing in relationships
Part II:
Mentalizing in relationships
Defining mentalizing
• attending to mental states in self and others• holding mind in mind• mindfulness of mind• understanding misunderstanding• seeing oneself from the outside and others from
the inside
The territory of mentalizing
othersothers
feelingsfeelingsthoughtsthoughts
selfself
empathyempathy
In advocating mentalization-based treatment we claim no innovation. On the contrary, mentalization-based treatment is the least novel therapeutic approach imaginable. —Allen & Fonagy, Handbook of Mentalization-Based Treatment
Parallel? Mentalizing a fundamental common factor in parenting and the least novel idea about parenting imaginable.
Mentalizing is the most fundamental common factor among psychotherapeutic treatments…perforce, clinicians mentalize in conducting psychotherapies and also engage their patients in doing so. —Allen, Fonagy, & Bateman, Mentalizing in Clinical Practice
Mentalizing as a common factor in therapies
A remarkable convergence: Mindfulness of Mind
Mentalizing MindfulnessMF of
Mind
Developmental Psychopathology
psychoanalysis attachment
Buddhism
philosophy spirituality
ways of contending with suffering
Mindful attentiveness: a foundation for effective mentalizing
making inferences about mental states
reflecting on the meaning of mental states
constructing biographical and autobiographical narrative
mentalizing
nonjudgmental attitude; acceptance, compassion, curiosity
awareness of mental states as representational*
*Don’t believe everything you think
overlap
bare attention, present-centered
attentiveness to mental states in self & othersmindfulness
The Mentalizing Stance (mentalizing mindfully)
Psychological aspects inquisitive, curious, playful, open-minded “not knowing”
Ethical aspects good will and compassion acceptance and forgiveness respect for autonomy love
Parallel? A stance for parenting?
Strong emotions fear anger shame infatuation
Defensiveness
Indifference
Factors that interfere with mentalizing
Part III:
Attachment in relationships
Part III:
Attachment in relationships
Attachment is our most potent way to regulate distress
Experimental situation Satisfied marital couples brought into lab; wife hooked up to receive
shocks. Conditions varied: holding husband’s hand, stranger’s hand, or no one’s hand. Multiple brain areas scanned.
ResultLowest levels of brain activation associated with holding hand of husband; highest levels with holding no hand.
ConclusionAttachment is the most potent and efficient means of emotion regulation. Outsource your emotion regulation and give your brain a break.
—“Lending a Hand” Jim Coan, University of Virginia
Every person throughout life confronts two fundamental psychological developmental challenges:
(a) to establish and maintain reciprocal, meaningful, and personally satisfying interpersonal relationships, and
(b) to establish and maintain a coherent, realistic, differentiated, integrated, essentially positive sense of self.
—Sidney Blatt (2008): Polarities of experience
Compare Immanuel Kant’s “two great moral forces”(a) Love (relatedness, coming closer)(b) Respect (autonomy, keeping distance)
Two Polarities of development:Relatedness and self-definition (autonomy)
Circle of security in secure attachment
exploring
seeking comfort
safe haven
secure
base psychological securityavoidant
attachment
ambivalent attachment
relatedness (effective
dependency)
self-definition
(autonomy)
secure attachment/
psychological security
BALANCE
excessive dependency
diminished autonomy
ambivalent attachment
diminished relatedness
excessive autonomyavoidant
attachment
Development of secure attachment and mentalizing
parental security of attachment ↔ parental mentalizing capacity
child secure attachment (comfort seeking)
mentalizing interactions with child
enhanced mentalizing capacity in childhood
Parallel contributions to mentalizing: Meeting of minds in relationships
The essence of psychotherapy—and parenting?
John Bowlby: the role of the psychotherapist [parent?] is “to provide the patient [child?] with a secure base from which he can explore the various unhappy and painful aspects of his life, past and present, many of which he finds it difficult or perhaps impossible to think about and reconsider without a trusted companion to provide support, encouragement, sympathy, and, on occasion, guidance.” [A Secure Base]
Conclusions, with parenting also in mind
In practice, the patient’s and therapist’s characteristics, their relationship, the alliance they establish, and the method of therapy cannot be disentangled; they all act in concert.
To the extent that they can be disentangled in research, the relationship and alliance carry more weight than the specific treatment techniques or method (brand name).
Rogers believed that the relationship is the therapy, but this begs the question: What are the patient and therapist doing while they are relating? We need to figure out the key problems and find the best methods of working on them.
Secure attachment, which requires and promotes mentalizing, provides a compelling developmental model for the psychotherapy relationship and alliance, especially as it balances the needs for relatedness and autonomy. Increasing the capacity for mentalizing and attachment security is a potentially important outcome of psychotherapy. Mentalizing is the foundation of relationships.
Menninger Blog Posts: SayNoToStigma.com
Is psychotherapy going to POT? (July 21, 2010)Can we cultivate more potent POT? (August 9, 2010)POT: What’s new in plain old therapy? (February 7, 2013)
Books:
Allen, J.G. Restoring Mentalizing in Attachment Relationships: Treating Trauma with Plain Old Therapy. Washington, DC: American Psychiatric Publishing, 2013.Allen, J.G. Mentalizing in the development and treatment of attachment trauma. London: Karnac.